I think over the last few days I’ve posted my personal information on my Facebook page than ever before. And this post, is really for me, so I’m sorry I’m not sharing any writing tip or great quote, it’s my heart instead.
This is my post from this morning on FB:
I wanted to say, thank you once again, for the love, support and prayers from everyone. The support was rather overwhelming and each time my heart filled with gratitude and love. Late Saturday afternoon my mom passed away peacefully. We knew that she was already gone and with our heavenly father, healed, happy and at peace, but under the circumstances we were able to talk to her, love on her, and spend time with our other family members, just as she would have wanted. I could hear her laughing with us. As difficult as it was to watch her those last few days, I wouldn’t trade that time with her and my family. And, I’m so blessed to have amazing and loving friends in my life. Blessings to all of you!
I’ve never lost a parent or someone so close to me. Yes, I’ve lost others, attended funerals, cried etc., but when it’s your parent, it’s a whole new level. Mom had a massive stroke, and by the time she reached the hospital, she was already gone, but my brother had them keep her on the ventilator until we were able to arrive and spend time with her. The doctor thought she would pass on within a matter of minutes after we had them disconnect her, but mom hung on for almost another 24 hours. There was no chance for a recovery, due to the amount of bleeding in the brain, and there was nothing they could do. We sat with her and watched her struggle to breathe on her own. Finally, at 4:40 p.m. Saturday, her breathing stopped. I know she couldn’t and hadn’t felt anything, thank God for that. So, over the next few weeks we will take care of things, service etc. My posts might be a bit sporadic and if I’m a little of kilter, I apologize.
Thanks for listening! Thanks to everyone who follows, comments, and shares! And what I will say, is if your dream and desires are to write (or any dream) DON”T put it off, don’t have regrets later in life.
Until Next Time…
My thoughts and prayers are with you Jen. It is definitely so hard to lose a parent. Thankfully, we have that eternal hope for the future in addition to our wonderful memories of days gone by. XOXOXO…
Thank you so much Bette!
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
HUGS.
Elizabeth
Silver’s Reviews
Thank you Elizabeth, and thanks for stopping by. 🙂
Jen, I am glad that you were able to spend the final time with your Mom like that. I am so happy to know you heard her laughter while you all spoke, as these are the memories you will carry forward. Her laughter will carry you through those times of sadness, Her words will seep in during those moments of indescision.
Hugs to you during this time of healing.
Thank you Liz.
Thank you. Eugenia
I never know what to say when news like this is given, all I know how to do is send ((hugs)) and tell you that we’re thinking of you.
Thank you very much.
I am incredibly sad for your loss. My thoughts, love and hugs are with you. xx Don’t worry about posting anything, just concentrate on you and your family at this difficult time.
Thank you Sandra.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My Mom passed away about a year ago. I’m giving you a virtual hug and saying prayers. Take good care of yourself during this difficult time.
Thank you so much Susan.
Jen,
I know from experience how hard it is to lose a parent, but you have turned an occurrence that looks like disaster to the world into the peace that a spiritual standing brings. Bless you in the days ahead.
Sending loving thoughts, Jen!
Christa
Thank you Christa!
I’m so very sorry to year that you’ve lost your mother. xo
Thank you.
Jen, I agree with Angela. Profound indeed. Your words served as a salve for many of us who lost someone so dear. And in return, I personally thank you for your gift and offer my sincere condolences and prayers during your emotional heartache and healing.
JoAnn, you made me cry. lol 🙂 Thank you for such kind words!
I shed tears and send prayers, Jen. I am so sorry for your loss. She is indeed in the arms of Our Father and suffers no pain. Though you ache, allow the waves to roll through you. I think angchronicles has said it best. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
Big hug Lee, thank you so much!
You know my heart has been and will continue to be with you through this, dear friend. Praying for our Lord’s sweet peace for all of you. May every joyful, funny, inspiring memory of time over the years spent with your mother come to your mind throughout these days to come. May you dream beautiful dreams of her and wake comforted. Love you, Jen
I love you too..sniff sniff 🙂
Dear Jen,
I’m sorry to learn your Mom had passed away. Please be ensured that you, your family and of course your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers.
I know exactly how it feels and I’m sending you all love, strength and encouragement that I can.
I hug you in thoughts
Raani
Thank you Raani.
I hope you are doing well, my friend, and getting by with the help of your family. I’m glad you had the time you did to spend with your mom and I know that your writing will be a solice to you in the coming months. Hold on tight…I found the time after my own mom’s death carried with it every possible emotion, good and bad.
Jen, I know what it’s like to lose a loved one and my heart’s with you. Hang in there, and whenever you need a shoulder, you know mine’s here.
Thanks Harvey, I appreciate you a whole lot 🙂
Thinking of you and your family. I’m glad you had a little time to say goodbye, even though it must have been so hard xx
I’m glad we had some time too. I think it is helping with the closure process. Thank you 🙂
Losing your mother is extremely painful. You will need time to mourn. May you find comfort in the love you shared and precious memories. So sorry, Jen. Hugs
Thanks Lesley.
Jen, I am sending you a hug today as you go about the task of making final plans for your mom. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in prayer as you and your family go through this very difficult time. We are here on this end whenever you need to let go of feelings.
Thank you Kathryn, that means a lot to me.
I care and am praying for your continued strength, my friend!!
Thank you Dixie.
I’m so sorry to hear this, Jen. All my prayers and healing thoughts to you and your family.
Thank you Darlene
She is with the Lord. That is the best comfort you can have because you have faith. My cousin has terrible soul pain because she has lost family and doesn’t have the faith to believe in Christ, though she says she wishes she did. She is terribly depressed because of it, though she doesn’t want to hear about God. I can only conclude, it is not her time to receive the Holy Spirit’s work. You are sooooo fortunate KNOWING that your mom believed and she is with God. WOW. That said, you miss her, of course and her physical presence is no longer here. Paul said to die is gain…I imagine he meant the carnal flesh dying and even the physical flesh dying. I lost both my parents…It took time to work through and mourn. However, God is good and He cares for you and will uplift your spirit through your friends and through His relationship with you to comfort you beyond words and with the knowing she is joyful, she is healed, she is now helping you here MORE THAN EVER. It was her time. God Bless. Sending the peace of Christ and the joy of the Lord to you in the time and season it is appropriate for you to receive.
Thank you very much Carole.
May the support of those near bring you comfort. So sorry for your loss.
Thank you James.
Dear Jen, my Mam just passed away unexpectedly on Thursday night. I know just how you are feeling. I didn’t get to say I love you or for her to say she was proud of me. I have cried for most of the last 3 days 😦 I feel lonely and thst everything is pointless . i am thinking of you and your loss. Sincerely and with love, Stephen (missing my Mam so very much)
Stephen- I’m so sorry! I truly know how you feel. Love and prayers to you and your family. I wonder how the body can produce so many tears sometimes.
Thank you Jen. I know, my eyes are like a broken tap that can’t quite stop dripping. I have put a few prayers and brief tribute on my site. I may email you one day soon but until then Hlod bless you.
Email any time Stephen, jenowenby@live.com
Jen, so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my father, so know something of what you’re experiencing. No need to apologize for not offering writing advice. There are thousands of blogs that give advice on writing, but the ones I most enjoy are those that offer glimpses into the heart and soul of the blogger. Because no two individuals are the same, those are the blogs that offer truly unique perspectives. Sending prayers for peace and comfort your way.
Thank you Dee Dee, and I’m sorry about your dad. Knowing parents grow older and they will some day move on doesn’t really help when your in the middle huh? Prayers for you as well.
Jen, how wonderful that you with your mother until the end. May she rest in peace in the loving arms of our G.d and how wonderful that she is with your father.
Give yourself plenty of time to properly mourn. Celebrate her life certainly, but her death is a real loss.
All condolences to you and your family and friends. The comment above, from angchronicles says it all …
Thank you Susan.
So sorry to hear of your mom’s passing.
Oh I’m so, so sorry to hear about your mom passing over. I wish I could say something to comfort you but I can’t. Nothing I can say will comfort you at the moment, only time (and a lot of it) will help. Take the time to grieve … and heal. I’m going through something similar (though not with my parents, I hasten to add) so I understand your pain. Take comfort in the knowledge that so many people care about you – you only have to reach out and we’ll be there. Loads of hugs …
Thank you very much Melanie.
Jen, this is the most profound type of writing one could share, grief and pain. Remember grief comes in waves, and some waves are heavier than others. Let them wash over you and know that with each tear, each shutter, God has you in the palm of his hand.
Angela- Thank you so much. I set out writing it to let eveyone know that if I was absent or a bit off kilter, why, and the rest was for my own heartbreak. I’ve been so overwhelmed with prayers, kind words and encouragement that at times I’m lacking for words. Thank you and I send a big hug.